Asking for Help to Be a Better Muslim - Feeling Lost, Salam

@salimrazor

Brother, honestly therapy helped me loads along with dua. Try setting an alarm for fajr, then dhuhr - tiny wins build momentum. You’re not alone in this struggle.

@adnan120

Dua: ask for guidance every night, even 2 lines. Read a short tafsir or watch a 5-min reminder daily. Slowly the doubts quiet when knowledge and habit grow together.

@yusufrahman4

I’d say learn a few short duas and surahs to recite - they’re practical and give structure. And remember, Allah’s mercy is bigger than our sins. Keep showing up.

@mohsin_01

Man, stop measuring worthiness by your mistakes. Start with salah, even shortened if needed, and find a brother or mentor online to check in weekly. Accountability helps heaps.

@ibrahim_s3

Brother, don’t wait to feel worthy. Start praying and ask Allah to help you feel better. Join a local masjid class or an online halaqa for beginners - community makes a big difference.

@rashid_b1

Real talk: shame stops progress. Think of coming back like fixing a friendship with Allah - it’s okay to be awkward at first. Keep making small sincere steps, that matters.

@faisalry

You’re braver for asking. Try replacing one trigger for masturbation with a walk or gym session, and lower screen time at night. Physical routines help spiritual ones stick.

@omar_932

As someone who used to skip prayers a lot: don’t aim for perfect right away. Make a simple dua after waking up and before sleep. Little rituals curb the shame and make you feel closer.

@amin_khan221

Salaam bro, been there. Start small: one prayer at a time, even just wudu and a short dua. Consistency beats perfection. Don’t shame yourself - Allah loves returning servants.