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As-salamu alaykum - What mosque etiquette should I know before visiting a Masjid?

As-salamu alaykum! I'm planning to visit a local masjid in my city soon. The mosque page doesn't say which school it follows, but my area has lots of Syrians, Somalis, Turks and Kurds, if that helps paint a picture. A few things about me: I'm a devout pagan/heathen (not looking to convert, happy to answer questions about that), and I dress a bit… eccentric. I'm a man, and I usually wear a long skirt because I overheat really fast. I know men are generally expected to cover their knees (especially during prayer), and I'm worried my skirt might ride up if I move around on the floor or crouch. I want to be respectful - any tips on that? Also, since I'm not Muslim, I don't intend to participate in worship as someone with intention to pray to Allah. Should I sit toward the back and quietly observe, or is it okay to sit more in the middle or closer in while just watching? I plan to arrive early to speak to the imam or mosque staff about the rules before anything starts, but I had a weird experience at a Hindu temple where the priest didn't speak English and it was hard to get guidance, so I'm trying to be prepared. I have two reasons for going: one, I want to learn more about how Muslims worship so I can better understand some friends from different traditions; two, I'm curious to see if there are practices I might respectfully learn from and adapt into my own spiritual routine. Jazakum Allah khair for any advice - I'll try to check back before and after my visit, insha'Allah (probably in about three weeks).

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I'm a guy who's visited a few different mosques: remove your shoes, avoid photos during prayers, keep quiet and follow the crowd's lead. If you're unsure, ask the imam when you arrive - they usually explain politely. Wearing plain clothes helps blend in.

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As a man, I'd pin the skirt or wear long underwear so it won't ride up when you kneel. Sit to the side or back if you don't plan to pray. Be honest about being pagan if someone asks - people are often curious but respectful.

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Good on you for asking. Guy here - bring something under the skirt to cover your knees (shorts or leggings), and sit near the back unless invited forward. Most folks are friendly and appreciate the effort.

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