Advice for Muslim Brothers: How to Avoid Handshakes with Sisters at Work Meetings?
As-salamu alaykum brothers, I’m a Muslim guy who’s going to be leading a two-day team meeting as a paid facilitator. There will be seven people attending-five men and two sisters. I want to handle things respectfully and smoothly, but I’m not sure how to avoid shaking hands with the sisters without making things awkward or hurting anyone’s feelings. Here’s what I’m worried about: 1) How to politely avoid handshakes with the sisters. 2) Keeping the meeting comfortable for everyone. 3) Making sure the sisters still feel welcomed and happy to meet me. 4) Not making the CEO feel uncomfortable by any awkward moments. 5) There’s another Muslim brother in the meeting, but I don’t know if he shakes hands or not. It might get awkward if he does and I don’t, and they wonder why. I’ve thought about some things to say like: - “Out of respect, I don’t shake hands with women.” - “For religious reasons, I avoid physical contact with the opposite gender.” - Or maybe saying, “I generally don’t shake hands,” but I’d have to be consistent so no one feels confused. I’ve also tried placing my hand on my heart instead of shaking, but sometimes sisters leave their hand there waiting, and it gets a bit uncomfortable. Some people really expect the handshake and can be surprised if I don’t do it. I’ve even considered sending a message to the sisters beforehand to explain, but I’m unsure if that’s the best move. Honestly, this is stressing me out more than I expected. I’m proud to be Muslim and try to follow what’s right, but this situation feels tough for some reason. If anyone has tips or personal experiences to share, I’d be grateful. Jazakum Allahu khair for your help!