Neman Shawara game da Tufafi masu Kyan gani, don Allah ku taimaka

As-salamu alaykum kowa - Ni sabuwar mai musulunci ce, kuma ina jin kamar na zama cikin damuwa game da hijab, niqab, da kuma kunya a gaba ɗaya. An haifeni a cikin yanayi mai sassauci inda jeans, t-shirts, dresses, da shorts suke da al'ada, don haka sake tsarin kayan sawa na da fahimtar abin da kunya take nufi a cikin Islama ya kasance mai wahala a gare ni. Ina so sosai in yi abin da Allah yake so, amma ina kula da kada na yi gaggawa cikin wani abu da ban fahimta ba sosai. Na ci gaba da ganin ra'ayoyi daban-daban - wasu suna cewa a fara sanya hijab nan da nan, wasu suna ba da shawarar sauyi a hankali; wasu mata suna sanya abaya, wasu kuma suna zabar kaya masu wani zamani, wasu suna sanya niqab - kuma ban san inda na dace ba. Don haka, ina son jin ra'ayin 'yan'uwana mata da 'yan'uwa maza: - Yaya kuka fara sanya kayan da suka fi tabbatar da kunya? - Shin kuna yin canjin a hankali ko duka a lokaci guda? - Menene ga ku ke dauka a matsayin mafi ƙarancin kunya ga Musulunci? - Ko kuna da wasu shawarwari masu amfani ga wanda ya saba da kayan Yamma a duk tsawon rayuwarsa? - Kuma ga mata da suke sanya hijab ko niqab - yaya kuka gina kwarin guiwa da jin dadin sanya shi? Zan gode da kyakkyawar shawara. Ina koyo kuma ina kokarin kyakkyawa, kuma ba na son jin kamar ina gazawa yayin da nake aiki a kan wannan. Jazakum Allahu khairan don kowanne taimako.