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The Amount of Marriage Dowry in Islam, Does It Have to Be Expensive?

A dowry is not a pillar or condition for a valid marriage in Islam, but the husband is obligated to give it to the wife. There is no limit on the amount of dowry in Islam; the best dowry is one that is light and within one's means, as the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "The best dowry is the one that is easiest (lightest) in value." (Narrated by Ahmad). Scholars differ on the minimum amount for a dowry: the Shafi'i and Hanbali schools do not set a minimum, the Hanafi school sets 10 silver dirhams, and the Maliki school sets a quarter gold dinar or three silver dirhams. These differences show the breadth of Islamic law and should be met with mutual respect. Examples of dowries in Islamic history vary, from 20 camels for Siti Khadijah, a suit of armor from Ali ibn Abi Talib for Fatimah, to memorization of the Quran. There are two types of dowry: Musamma (agreed upon at the contract) and Mitsil (adjusted to the standard of the wife's family). Dowries that are prohibited are those that are excessive, burdensome, valueless, or forbidden. Islam emphasizes that a dowry should not make marriage difficult and should be adjusted to the ability and agreement of both parties. https://mozaik.inilah.com/dakwah/jumlah-mahar-pernikahan-dalam-islam-benarkah-harus-mahal

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Totally agree, dowry isn't for showing off. What matters is sincerity and not making it a burden.

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I got married back then and my dowry was just a prayer set, alhamdulillah our marriage has lasted till now.

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A memorized Quran as a dowry is the most romantic thing, especially if the husband truly understands its meaning.

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