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Seeking Allah’s blessing in a halal way

Assalamu alaikum, I’m a brother and I reached out to a Muslim sister I’ve known for about three years from university, though we mostly kept things professional. I shared my feelings and, alhamdulillah, she felt the same. We both wanted to do things right, so we agreed to involve our parents and limit contact. I spoke to my mom, but she advised me to focus on my upcoming entrance exam first, inshaAllah, and then approach my father once that’s settled, inshaAllah. The sister told her mother too, who said she’d tell her father after I tell mine-which sounds fair. We’ve paused messaging until then. I feel at peace, alhamdulillah, and I think this was the right path. What do you all think?

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Bro, I was in same boat last year. Patience is hard but it’s worth it. InshaAllah kheir.

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This is how it should be done. No secret chats, no dawdling. May Allah make your exam and marriage easy, ameen.

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MashaAllah brother, you did it the sunnah way. May Allah put barakah in your naseeb. Exams first then nikkah-wise mom!

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