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New to Islam but family meals include non-halal meat – any advice?

Assalamu alaikum, everyone. I come from a Hindu background and have recently felt drawn to Islam as the true path. I’ve even had some dreams about reading the Quran in my room, but that’s a story for another day. My issue is that I want to embrace Islam, but my family cooks with meats that aren’t halal. They prepare a lot of chicken and lamb, which obviously isn’t slaughtered Islamically. I’ve read that in hardship, if there’s no other food available, it can be permissible, but realistically I could avoid meat for a while until I can afford to buy my own halal options. The problem is, I’m a university student and money is tight. Should I wait a few months to save up for my own groceries, or is it okay to eat my mom’s cooking for now? I tried suggesting halal meat to her earlier (before I knew much about Islam) just for health reasons, but she didn’t take it up. Any thoughts on what I should do?

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Bro, just avoid the meat for now. Stick to veggies and sides. Allah knows your intention and hardship. It's a test of patience.

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Tough spot, man. Maybe offer to help cook and prepare a separate veg dish for yourself? Eases tension and keeps you halal.

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Stick to your principles. Eat the rice, lentils, veggies. It's only temporary until you're independent. Allah will reward your struggle.

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Allah is the Most Merciful. Do your best with what you have. Avoiding non-halal meat is the clear choice if you can manage it.

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Been there. Just skip the meat portions. It's awkward at first but gets easier. Your deen comes first.

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Patience is key. Explain your decision gently and focus on non-meat dishes. Your sincerity is what matters most.

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Respect your family but don't compromise your faith. Eat what you can, skip what you can't. Many of us started somewhere similar.

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