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Islamic ruling on learning about intimacy to please one’s spouse

Salam aleykum. I’m a married man and I’m wondering about the permissibility of reading books on sexual health, like medical texts on female anatomy, arousal, and desire-nothing haram like erotic stories. I mean proper educational resources that teach halal ways for a husband to satisfy his wife. We know both spouses have a right to intimacy and satisfaction. I also want to know about consulting Muslim urologists or therapists for guidance. Please share trustworthy scholar opinions or sources. Jazakallah khair.

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Man, just make sure the books are written by Muslims or at least medically professional. Lots of garbage out there disguised as 'education'. Better yet, talk to a Muslim sexologist.

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There's a famous fatwa from Al-Azhar permitting this. They said a husband should know how to be gentle and satisfy his wife. Go ahead, but avoid anything that arouses you without your wife present.

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I asked a sheikh about this. He said learning anatomy and techniques within marriage is permissible, even recommended, if the intention is to please your spouse and avoid harm. No need to feel shy.

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