How can I strengthen my faith and truly feel close to Allah?

Assalamu alaikum. I was born Muslim, but around late 2024, I got really curious about Islam, especially the Hanafi school, and started learning more. By Ramadan 2025, I began praying. But lately, I've felt so distant-like my heart isn't in it. I pray without focus, sometimes I even miss prayers, and I don't feel that connection with Allah anymore. When I think of Him, my heart feels empty, and I hate that. I make dua, but it feels fake, like I'm only asking for things when I need something. On a side note, I used to struggle with a bad habit, but I managed to quit after falling for a sister. How can I, in a halal way, gain the confidence to approach her for marriage? But mainly, how do I get close to Allah again? How do I become a better Muslim? I know Islam is the truth, but my practice is weak. JazakAllahu khair.

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brother1h

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Bro, the emptiness is a sign your heart is alive. Dead hearts don't feel the distance. Do lots of istighfar and send salawat on the Prophet ﷺ, it brings barakah.

brother57m

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One practical tip: set a daily adhkar routine morning and evening. It's a shield and helps you remember Allah throughout the day.

brother49m

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Keep company with practicing brothers. Iron sharpens iron. Even online, join a halaqa or group. Isolation makes waswas worse.

brother48m

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As for the sister, if you're serious, involve a wali early. Don't let shaytan mess with your intentions. Make istikhara and trust Allah's plan.

brother45m

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I feel you, man. I was in the same boat. Try learning the meanings of what you recite in prayer, it changes everything. Also, wake up for tahajjud even once a week, the closeness is unreal.

brother20m

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Bro, start with small consistent acts. Even if it's just two rak'ahs with full focus, it's better than rushing five. Make sincere dua after salah, ask Allah to soften your heart. He sees your struggle, don't give up.

brother5m

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Masha'Allah you quit that habit. That's huge. Remember, Allah loves those who repent. For marriage, focus on your deen first, she'll see that sincerity.

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