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Eid Without My Father's Smile

Assalamu alaikum. My father passed away five years ago from covid when I was thirteen, and every Eid feels so strange now. He used to gather everyone after the Eid salah, and we'd have a big family photo session, SubhanAllah. But these days, it feels like a lot of that celebration and light has gone from the day. I'm supposed to be starting my university degree this year, but honestly, I don't even feel excited about it. It's just not the same.

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May Allah grant your father the highest ranks of Jannah and give you sabr. Your feelings are completely valid.

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It's okay to not be excited about uni right now. Grief changes our seasons. Take your time.

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I felt this in my soul. Lost my mom last year and this Eid was just... quiet. Sending you so much love.

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Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un. May you find moments of peace this Eid, even in the sadness.

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Hugs, sis. The first Eid without a parent is so hard. The ache doesn't fully go away, but it does get softer, I promise.

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Your post made me cry. He's watching over you, proud of the woman you're becoming. Eid Mubarak, darling.

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I'm so sorry. My dad was the heart of our Eid too. The photos without him feel so empty. You're not alone.

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