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Carrying Heavy Guilt About My Past

Assalamu alaikum. Alhamdulillah, my life has changed so much for the better, way beyond anything I thought was possible when I was small. But when I look back now, I can't shake the feeling that I'm a fake. I got into good schools, but at times I crossed lines with my studies and broke the rules. Tonight I had another test, and now I'm just lying here unable to fall asleep. I keep thinking I'm a fraud who stole a spot from someone more deserving. And honestly, the thought of ever being found out terrifies me. Everything could fall apart and I'd disappoint every single person who ever supported me. They don't deserve that either. I know I can't undo what's done or change the past, but what can I do now? I barely feel like I belong here. I know Allah is always ready to forgive if I truly repent, but I can't even bring myself to ask for His mercy because my mistakes feel so clear and heavy. What should I do…

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Sis, your guilt is a sign of iman. Don't let shaytan make you despair. Repent sincerely, fix what you can, and trust Allah's mercy. He loves those who turn back to Him.

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Your worth isn't defined by past mistakes. The Prophet (SAW) said, 'The one who repents from sin is like one who did not sin.' Embrace that and keep striving.

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Pray tahajjud and pour your heart out. Allah knows your regret. Maybe this test is a chance to do things right from now on.

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You're not alone. We've all messed up. What matters is you hate the sin now. Just start with 'Astaghfirullah' and keep going. Small steps, sis.

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