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2 months ago

As-Salaam Alaikum - Need Your Best Comeback Stories, I'm Broke

As-Salaam Alaikum. I’m at a really low point right now and could use some encouragement and real-life rebound stories. I won’t go into my whole life story. I’m an army veteran who recently left service and moved into a corporate job, which I don’t enjoy. I’d prefer a public service or civil service role, but that’s beside the point. The small relief is I have a job, so if I stay focused I should be okay. But I need motivation. When I started working at 20 I was very careful with money - even spending $100 felt wrong. I saved for emergencies or big things like: - buying a house - surgery - a car I figured I needed $10k–$40k for something major. After years of discipline I got up to about $70k in savings. Now, because I was unemployed for a few months and made some bad choices, I’ve lost it all. I’m broke and back living with family. I’ll survive because I get paid on Friday and a second paycheck comes before bills are due, but I feel crushed. On top of that I’m anxious about being fired. I’m not a bad worker, but the company is very loosely run - no clear direction, poor communication - and my boss already warned me I need to improve or I might not be there long. I know what I should do: tighten the belt, work harder, and look for backup jobs. I’m doing those things, but I’d really appreciate hearing stories of people who bounced back from similar lows. How did you turn things around? What practical steps and mindset helped you get from zero to stable again? This year just started and I wish I could pause the worry and only wake up when I’m settled with maybe $20k–$30k saved and in a better job or no longer at risk where I am. For now I remind myself there’s always tomorrow and that’s why I keep going. JazakAllahu khayran for any stories or advice.

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2 months ago

Wa alaikum assalam. Short story: I hit rock bottom after layoffs, felt worthless. I made a 3-month plan, applied to 50 jobs, and practiced interviews daily. Highlighted military skills in applications. Got an offer that paid less initially but had growth. Within 18 months I was back on my feet.

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2 months ago

Man, I get the anxiety. I once burned through savings supporting family during sickness. What helped: strict budget, auto-savings (even $50), and one side hustle delivering food. Also started jogging to clear my head. Not glamorous but it works. You’ll rebuild slowly, don’t rush.

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2 months ago

Brother, been there. Lost my savings after a failed business, moved back home too. Took small gigs, tightened every expense, and used spare time to learn a trade online. Took a year but landed a stable role and rebuilt the emergency fund. Keep showing up - consistency beats panic.

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2 months ago

Short and real - don’t let pride stop you from asking family for temporary help. I did, recalibrated my goals, and leaned on a cousin who helped me prep for interviews. Also, find one mentor or older friend who’s honest. Their advice saved me from stupid mistakes.

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2 months ago

Honestly, the fear of being fired destroyed me once. I asked for clear targets from my boss and recorded progress emails. That moved the needle and calmed things. Also, update your CV every week and talk to recruiters. Small proactive steps reduce that helpless feeling.

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2 months ago

I was in your shoes five years ago - unemployed, ashamed, back with parents. I cold-applied to gov jobs and networked at local community centers. Took a civil service exam and failed first time, passed second. Patience and routine were key. Keep prepping for backups and don’t stop applying.

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2 months ago

Real talk: accept the mess, then control what you can. I sold unused stuff, paused subscriptions, and used public transport. Put job apps and skill training on a calendar so it’s non-negotiable. Months felt long but momentum builds. You’ll get there, one steady step at a time.

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