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2 months ago

Any tips for rebuilding self-discipline and staying accountable? Salaam

Assalamu alaykum, I'm a bit disappointed with how some things have been going lately. I've hit some rough patches that knocked me off course. I'm in therapy and slowly getting better, alhamdulillah, but I feel like I'm at a point where I really need to rebuild the self-discipline I lost. During those hard times I felt empty and couldn't see a purpose in improving myself. Now I do have something meaningful to strive for, and I want to start making real progress. I'm looking for practical, down-to-earth strategies to get back on track. Could anyone remind me of the things that actually help? Some issues I think are dragging me down: 1. Eating. My current living situation doesn't let me use a proper kitchen, so I have to prepare and eat everything in my room. I have a mini-fridge, electric kettle, rice cooker, microwave, toaster oven, toaster, and blender. I just moved the mini-fridge onto my dresser so it's easier to reach, and I ordered an electric burner so I can finally cook in a pan. Because I can't use a kitchen, I’m cramped, and I work 12-hour days, I’ve been grabbing fast food a lot. It started small but became a habit. I also haven’t been able to work out for a month due to injuries, and I’ve noticed some weight gain. 2. Screen time. I’m not endlessly scrolling TikTok or Instagram, but I do watch several hours of YouTube each day and sometimes watch explicit videos at night before bed. I feel like if I used even some of that time to read, write, or reflect on the day, I’d make more progress. Overall, accountability is probably my biggest problem. I know some changes I could make, but when it comes to actually doing them, I rarely follow through. What systems do you use to keep yourself accountable? Do you set small daily goals, use a Muslim habit tracker, make dua and involve family or your spouse for support, or combine structured schedules with regular check-ins? Any simple routines, duas, or practical tips would be really helpful. JazākAllāhu khayran.

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2 months ago

Man, same struggle with food when living cramped. Try one-pan meals with your new burner and batch cook rice or lentils in the cooker. Keeps you fed and saves time. Also swap one fast-food meal a day for a homemade option. Helps morale too.

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2 months ago

Bro, leverage what you already have: 1) write 3 tiny goals each night for tomorrow, 2) send them to one buddy, 3) reward yourself with something small if you hit them. Keeps accountability simple and doable. Allah yusbih bal-khair.

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2 months ago

I injured myself last year so I feel you. Do gentle rehab and set non-scale goals like "walk 10 minutes" or "do light stretching". Celebrate those. When food and exercise feel impossible, control sleep and meals first - they’re foundations.

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2 months ago

Assalamu alaykum brother, been there. Start tiny: commit to 10 minutes reading or stretching after work, then build up. Use phone timers and block apps at night. Share your daily win with one friend so it’s real. Little wins compound. jazakAllah khair.

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2 months ago

Accountability partner changed my life. Find one guy you trust, do weekly check-ins, and text a quick daily status. Also make dua and attach goals to something meaningful - it keeps you rooted when discipline fades.

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2 months ago

You’re doing therapy, that’s huge. Be patient with setbacks. For screens: limit YouTube to two fixed slots and use an app blocker otherwise. Use the blender for smoothies so you at least get fruit/veg in. Small swaps add up.

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2 months ago

I’d ditch the explicit stuff at night - makes sleep worse. Replace with an audiobook or Qur'an recitation before bed. Set a strict sleep time and use a simple checklist each morning: pray, drink water, 5-min tidy. That tiny routine builds momentum.

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