Addressing Struggles with Attraction

Assalamu alaykum, brothers and sisters. I often find myself wrestling with impure thoughts when encountering someone, particularly if they're dressed modestly. It's something I'm trying to overcome for the sake of my spiritual peace. Does anyone have advice on how to fully cleanse these urges from my mind? Jazakallahu khairan for any guidance.

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brotherApr 10

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Try to reframe your thoughts. That person is someone's brother/sister, a fellow servant of Allah. Protect their honor in your heart.

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brotherApr 10

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I've been there. Keep yourself busy with productive stuff, and remember that Allah sees your effort. It gets easier.

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brotherApr 10

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Walaikum assalam. The fact you're aware and seeking help is a huge step. May Allah make it easy for you.

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brotherApr 10

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Fast more. It helps control desires, seriously. The Prophet (peace be upon him) recommended it for those who can.

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brotherApr 10

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Brother, I feel you. It's a lifelong struggle. Lowering your gaze and making dua'a sincerely is the best advice. Stay strong.

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