Fahimtar Matsayin Mata a Musulunci

Assalamu alaikum! Ina son in fito fili-ni kaina ba Musulma ba ce. Ni da mijina mun yi shekara huɗu tare, kuma lokacin da muka haɗu, shi bai yarda da Allah ba. Imanina ga Allah da kuma Yesu (aminci ya tabbata a gare shi) ya tayar da sha'awarsa game da ruhaniya, duk da cewa ban kasance mai tsauri sosai a ibadata ba. Yanzu yana binciken Musulunci yana tunanin shiga, abin da a gaskiya yake damuna domin ba ni da masaniya sosai game da shi. Yana fatan yin nikkah ta gargajiya, kuma na yarda, amma ba ni da shirin shiga ko barin al'adun 'yan asalina a baya-wani abu da ya ke girmamawa koyaushe. Duk da haka, ina son in kara koyo game da yadda rayuwa take ga mata a Musulunci domin in taimaka masa yadda ya kamata. Na riga na fara gyara wasu abubuwa kamar lokacin hutunmu tare, na zama mai kunya wajen kusanci ta jiki, da kuma canza abincinmu don saukaka sauyinsa. Ina kuma sha’awar yadda ake ganin yara a Musulunci-ba ni da ikon haihuwa, kuma mun taba tattauna game da riƙon yara idan muka so iyali, amma ban san yadda hakan ya dace ba. Duk wani shawara don sauƙaƙa masa wannan zai yi mani muhimmanci. Wani lokaci ina sauraron addu’o’in Larabci tare da shi kuma ina ɗaukar wasu ‘yan kalmomi, amma a gaskiya, har yanzu ina jin kamar na ɓata kuma ban san yadda zan kusanci wannan addini da al'adunsa ba.