Sanya hannu a kirji idan kana guje wa musafaha

Assalamu alaikum! Na karbi addinin Musulunci ina dan shekara 13 kuma ina da shekara 19 yanzu (babban zabi da na taba yi!!!). A jami’a, musafaha lokacin haduwa da sababbin mutane abu ne da ya zama ruwan dare saboda harabar jami’a tana da girman gaske, kuma ba kasafai nake samun shawara kan yadda zan tafiyar da wannan ba. Sanya hannuna a kirji don guje wa musafahar ‘yan’uwa mata yana aiki kusan kashi 50 cikin 100 (ina yin hakan kafin su ma suna shirin miko hannu). Sauran rabin sau da yawa ina kawo karshe ina bayyana dalili, abin da kawai ke sa ni jin kunya a gare ni. Wani lokacin matsin lamba a lokacin yana da yawa kuma ina kokari sosai? Ko wataƙila ina yawan tunani kawai. Akwai wasu shawarwari ko ƙananan dabaru da kuka saba amfani da su? Ina ɗaukar wannan da mahimmanci domin idan na yi aure inshaAllah, zan so matata ta yi haka ma, kuma ina so gaske in tabbatar da abin da nake faɗa da aikina, kuma kawai in tafiyar da shi da kyau. A gaskiya, tun kafin na koma addinin, musafahar makarantar sakandare ta damu ni, saboda ba ka san abin da hannayen mutane suka taɓa ba.