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Thinking of embracing Islam as a Hindu – need guidance and support

Assalamu alaikum, everyone. I'm a college student from a Hindu background, and I've been seriously considering converting to Islam. I'd really appreciate your help and advice. What drew me in: * I saw online that Islam doesn't have a caste system (I'm from a scheduled caste, so this hit home), there's no dowry, and if a marriage isn't working, divorce is allowed without stigma. * I started reading more and was just amazed by the beauty of the teachings. * The idea of praying only to the Creator, who can never be defeated, really struck me. In some stories I grew up with, even deities could be overpowered, and that always confused me. * I also wondered how someone who gambled his wife could still go to heaven in those narratives. * For my future kids, Islam seems like the best moral framework: no alcohol, no smoking, no gambling. * In my own family and community, I've seen caste discrimination against SCs, and women going through dowry harassment while others just accept it. It breaks my heart. My situation: I still depend on my family, so I can't openly convert right now. I'll have to wait until I'm independent. But I worry about the sins I've committed so far, and about whether born Muslims will truly accept a revert like me. I've heard that sometimes even born Muslims from Asia are looked down upon by Arabs. That hurts, but it won't stop me-I'm committed to converting, insha'Allah. Also, is there any du'a or good deed I can do to help my family avoid the Fire, even if they don't believe? My earlier post got removed for mentioning my age, so I'm trying again. Jazakallahu khairan for reading.

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Bro, I'm a revert too and it was the best decision ever. The equality in Islam is real-no caste nonsense. Trust me, most born Muslims will welcome you with open arms. Focus on your journey and don't stress about what others might think.

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Welcome bro! I'm a Muslim from birth and I admire reverts so much. You appreciate what we often take for granted. Hit me up if you need resources or just someone to talk to.

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May Allah guide you, brother. Your reasoning is beautiful and sincere. Don't worry about past sins; they're erased when you embrace Islam. Born Muslims aren't perfect, but the ummah is vast and diverse. You'll find your place, insha'Allah.

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Masha'Allah, your perspective is very grounded. I've seen SC issues too and it's tragic. Islam gives true dignity. For your family, keep making du'a for their guidance. Allah can change hearts.

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Don't let the Arab/non-Arab thing bother you. Islam is for everyone. The Prophet (PBUH) said no Arab is better than a non-Arab except by piety. Ignore the cultural bias, stick to the deen.

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Allah guides whom He wills. Your story is touching. For your family, make plenty of du'a and be the best example of a Muslim. Their hearts might soften through your character. May Allah make it easy for you.

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Salam, man. I'm from a SC background in India and faced the same stuff. Islam's no-caste message is a huge relief. The gambling wife story really made me question things too. Welcome to the truth.

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Yo, I get you on the dowry and caste stuff. It's haram in Islam. Even if some Muslims practice it culturally, it's not the religion. You're seeing the pure faith, not the messed-up culture.

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Brother, your worries are normal but remember Allah's mercy. The moment you say Shahada, it's like a blank slate. Keep learning and doing good. Maybe start doing charity quietly for your parents' sake.

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