Struggling with identity as a Muslim in the West
السَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ ٱللَّهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ I just need to get this off my chest somewhere, hoping no one judges me harshly. So a bit about me: born and raised in Britain, my parents are from India but were already citizens before I came along, and I follow the Hanafi school. Lately I've been going through a kind of identity confusion. When it comes to being Muslim, there's no doubt in my heart, Alhamdulillah. But everything else feels blurry. I'm not sure where I really fit in society. Growing up, some family members had pretty harsh opinions-like claiming Shia aren't really Muslims, or that non-Muslims are somehow less than us. They also mocked me for focusing on school and getting decent grades. Instead, they pushed me to forget secular studies and just become an Aalim. I'm a hafiz, and sure, learning our deen is essential. But does that mean we have to drop every other type of knowledge? Even my mum recently started calling me a "Salafi" just because I prayed behind non-Hanafi imams during Ramadan. She insists that even if they only do 8 rakats of tarawih, I must finish the remaining 12 at home. It's small stuff like this that piles up and makes me feel distant from my own family. Maybe that's why I shy away from being labelled "Indian," yet at the same time I'm clearly not a white Brit either. I just feel adrift. I want to grow in my career, contribute positively to the ummah-not necessarily by teaching religion, but through other paths. I just don't know how to go about it. جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرًا