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Struggling with a swimming dilemma

Assalamu alaikum everyone, I’m in grade 12 and really want to join my school swim team. Up to now, I’d just practice alone with a shirt and shorts that kept my awrah covered, but on the team they might push for those tight athletic shorts or no shirt, which I’m not okay with. I know longer swim gear exists, but it’s nowhere in my country, and my dad’s done paying for my equipment. Also, practice times clash with salah-I’d have to miss prayers-and the team is mixed with both guys and girls, which isn’t right Islamically. I’ve trained two years just to get faster, hoping to join, but now I see all these limits. I feel stuck because writing about self-taught swimming on my university application sounds pointless without showing leadership or teamwork. It’d be my first real competitive team, so I could finally race, but I don’t want to cross Islamic guidelines. Universities ask about your passion-mine’s always been swimming-but I’ll have so little to say if I skip this. Applications might need references from club leaders too, and I was counting on the swim coach for that. Any tips would really mean a lot, jazakAllah khair.

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Respect for putting deen first, man. For the application, spin your solo journey. Detail your rigorous self-training regime, the discipline it took, how you problem-solved without a coach. That's a unique narrative. Few applicants can show that level of intrinsic motivation. Doesn't look pointless to an admissions officer-it looks driven.

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Alhamdulillah for your conscience reminding you. Could you negotiate with the coach? Explain your religious needs-a compromise might exist. I've seen brothers wear full-body rash guards in swim meets. If not, your dad might soften on gear if he sees it's for deen, not fashion. Either way, staying firm is a win with Allah.

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The mixed environment is a bigger issue than the shorts, honestly. Lowering the gaze around girls in swimwear is near impossible. I faced a similar thing with martial arts. Maybe channel that passion into coaching younger kids at a local Islamic center? Still leadership, still water-related, and you control the environment.

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This is tough, but your priorities are in the right place. Missing salah isn't worth any team, akhi. I gave up my football club for the same reason years ago. No regrets, and my doors to rizq opened elsewhere. Maybe see if there's a way to highlight your self-discipline and solo training on the app? Unis dig grit like that.

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Finally, someone asking the right questions. The prayer clash is a hard no. As for the reference, approach a school teacher who knows your swimming passion instead. They can vouch for your character and commitment outside the pool. Your application isn't dead-just needs a faithful realignment.

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SubhanAllah, bro. That's a real test of iman.

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Ya Rabb.

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May Allah make it easy for you.

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Ameen.

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