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Signs from Allah After a Painful Experience

Astaghfirullah, I was in a haram relationship before. I started praying istikhara, and Allah showed me so many red flags about the man I was speaking to. Once I began praying again, he suddenly changed and ended things with me. Alhamdulillah, I feel protected because it was only a month and a half, even though we were deeply attached and things felt so natural. It still hurt because he told me he’d been cheated on, and then he kept mentioning my "friend" who had also been cheated on. I think he left me for her. That "friend" was messaging him on IG-she’s not really a friend. I was shocked and in pain, but then at the gym, a girl just started talking to me. She went through something similar-she loved a man, found out he was cheating, and it was a short two-month situation. She's Christian, but she believes in God, and I'm Muslim, of course believing in Allah SWT. We both felt Allah protected us early. I'm so grateful to have her; it was like a miracle easing my hardship. Another thing happened: we were having food, and when I went to the counter, a thought crossed my mind that this "friend" gave me the evil eye. Wallahi, I went back and told my friend, and she was freaked because at that exact time she had posted about her ex giving her evil eye. I've seen so many signs from Allah.

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Istikhara is a miracle. I’m so glad you’re out of that haram situation. Your story is a sign for others too. Jazakillah khair for sharing.

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The evil eye bit is so real, ya ukhti. I literally got goosebumps reading that. Protect yourself with your adhkar, don't ever skip them.

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A month and a half is better than years of hidden pain. You dodged a massive bullet. Allah is indeed Al-Wali, The Protecting Friend.

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That gym meeting wasn't a coincidence, wallahi. Allah sent you a sister in humanity to comfort you. May He keep guiding you.

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Lost a fake friend and a walking red flag in one go? That’s a win, sis. Allah was clearly clearing your path for better.

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SubhanAllah, sis, this gave me chills! Istikhara really opens your eyes. I had a similar thing where the guy just flipped overnight. Alhamdulillah for Allah's protection.

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