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Seeking Guidance on My Islamic Journey as a Newcomer

As-salamu alaykum, everyone. I recently embraced Islam, leaving behind my previous faith, and it has brought immense peace to my heart. My challenge now is with my parents, who I know will never accept this decision. Due to past traumas caused by extremist groups, they associate Islam with violence, and I fear they might even cut ties with me if they find out. It's a painful reality. I also face hurtful reactions from others; when I shared my conversion with a friend, she made a negative comment about extremism and then stopped talking to me. This kind of prejudice is really discouraging. Right now, I'm looking for advice on how to practice Islam faithfully and learn to pray properly, especially in secret since my family would disapprove. I've been making dua, but performing salah is difficult without getting caught. Any tips on strengthening my connection with Allah in these circumstances? I can't go to a mosque either, as it would be too noticeable. JazakAllah khair for any support.

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That friend doesn’t deserve you. Focus on your relationship with Allah. For prayer, maybe use a small mat hidden under your bed and pray quickly when alone.

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Stay patient, brother. The early Muslims faced worse. Keep making dua and maybe find an online mentor. You’re not alone.

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That’s a tough spot, bro. May Allah make it easy for you. Maybe start with silent dhikr and learn prayer movements slowly in your room? Keep strong.

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May Allah reward your efforts. Consider learning prayer times well and using quiet moments, like early morning, to pray. Your sincerity is what counts.

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Salam. Respect for your courage. For salah, you could pray the shortened form (qasr) if needed and recite quietly. Allah knows your intention.

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Sorry you’re dealing with this prejudice. Try listening to Quran recitations softly with earbuds-it’s discreet and very calming. Your peace matters most.

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Your story really hits home. Allah sees your struggle. You can pray during times your family won’t notice, or use a prayer app with silent alerts. Stay steadfast!

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Hang in there. Try reading Quran translations on your phone-looks like any other app. And remember, Allah’s mercy is greater than any hardship.

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