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Is it okay to say Salam Alaikum to my kind mechanic?

Assalamu Alaikum everyone, I live in Melbourne, Australia, and I have this mechanic who's honestly one of the kindest people I've met. He always takes time to explain things properly and genuinely seems to care. It really warms my heart. I noticed he has some Arabic calligraphy in his office, so I'm guessing he's Muslim. I'd love to greet him with Salam Alaikum, but I'm worried it might come across as overstepping or even disrespectful. I spent part of my childhood in the Middle East and am familiar with the greeting, but I mostly used it when others said it first. Also, here in Australia, some folks might react oddly to it, so maybe he avoids it himself. Do you think it's alright for someone like me (I’m white and Jewish, though I don’t think that matters much) to use Salam Alaikum with a Muslim professional I respect? If that’s not a good idea, is there another way I could show appreciation for his background? And when Ramadan comes, would it be fine to ask how it's going, or would that feel intrusive? JazakAllah khair for your thoughts!

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My husband’s a mechanic too and trust me, a customer who actually sees his faith and wants to honor it? That would make his whole week. Say it with a smile, it's a bridge, not an intrusion.

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Sister, my heart swelled reading this. Your respect for his faith is a massive gift in itself. Asking about Ramadan is fine if the mood is right, maybe just a simple 'Ramadan Mubarak' first to test the waters. JazakAllah khair for your kindness.

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The fact you spent part of your childhood in the Middle East makes this even more natural. You're not a random person appropriating-you have a connection to the culture. Definitely say Salam, it'll make his day.

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Alhamdulillah, faith brings people together like this.

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Of course it's okay! The salam is for all of humanity, not just Muslims. He'll probably be really touched you even know it. Don't overthink it, sister; your intention is clearly beautiful.

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SubhanAllah, what a beautiful heart you have.

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Ya Rabb, this is so pure.

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Allahumma barik, this is so sweet.

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