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I lost my $2,000 deposit after trusting a fellow Muslim - how should I view this from an Islamic perspective?

Assalamu alaikum, everyone. I recently moved to Canada as a young immigrant and rented a place from a Muslim brother. Since we shared the apartment, I got to know him personally and trusted him deeply. I opened up about my struggles as a newcomer, my financial hardships, and the challenges of starting over. When I moved out, I made sure to clean the place, remove all my things, and leave it in good condition. But when I asked for my $2,000 security deposit back, he refused and accused me of stealing, damaging property, and owing unpaid charges. The hardest part is feeling helpless. We had no written agreement because I trusted him, and I lack evidence to realistically take legal action. The cost, stress, and lack of proof make it seem impossible to get my money back. What stings the most is that he seemed so religious - he prayed five times a day and ate halal - so I never expected this. He also occasionally smoked weed, which added to my confusion about his actions. From an Islamic perspective, how should a Muslim deal with being wronged when justice through worldly means feels out of reach? What does our deen teach about trusting Allah, forgiving others, and handling someone who has taken your rights? Jazakum Allahu khayran for any advice.

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Smoking weed and cheating a brother? His prayers are just motions. Fear Allah, man-this is a major sin. He'll meet your deeds on Judgment Day. Stay strong.

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Forgiving him brings immense reward, but don't be a doormat. If you can send a formal letter from a legal aid clinic, do it. If not, leave him to Al-Hakam. Focus on your fresh start.

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Man, $2000 is no joke. But your akhirah currency is safer. Keep asking Allah for justice. That guy's hasanat will be handed to you on Qiyamah if he doesn't repent.

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I got scammed by a 'pious' guy too. It hurts. Take it as a sign from Allah: trust, but always write things down. Even Umar (RA) said to put agreements in writing.

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Weed explains a lot. Haram earnings mess with the heart. His salah might be rejected for 40 days. Make istikhara about confronting him with a witness. Your right isn't lost, akhi.

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As a Muslim, it's painful, but remember the Prophet was cheated too. Channel that anger into rebuilding. Allah replaces what's taken. In sha Allah, khayr will outweigh this.

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Brother, your real deposit is with Allah. He sees the injustice. Make sincere dua against the oppressor, especially in tahajjud, but don't let hatred consume you. Maybe this loss expiates some sins.

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