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Dua request: hoping to wear niqab at my college

Assalamu alaikum, I study at a Catholic college where most people are Christians or atheists who aren't very religious, and a lot of them dress quite openly, especially when it's warm-there's basically no dress code. Muslims are a tiny group here, along with a few Hindus and others. I already get some subtle looks or different treatment because I cover up. So yeah, I totally get that the niqab will be even more unusual for the staff and students. But I truly feel it's wajib and it's something really close to my heart. I wear it when I'm not at college, but I want to try my best to wear it on campus too. So I spoke to my tutor and we've set up a meeting to talk it through, and they'll let the principal know as well. The college website already says no clothes that hide the face, but as far as I know, no one's ever asked to cover their face for religious reasons here, so I have a tiny bit of hope. I've got all my points ready for whatever they might say, and I'd love it if you could make dua that they accept this and let me wear it at college, insha'Allah. I'm not going in with big expectations, 'cause I don't want to feel crushed if it doesn't work out, but any prayers would be lovely :> Jazakum Allahu khayran.

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SubhanAllah, your courage is inspiring. I know how hard it is to stand out. Keep that niyyah strong-Allah sees your heart. Insha’Allah the meeting goes well and they understand.

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This is so true. When I started wearing hijab at uni, I was so nervous, but keeping my niyyah for Allah alone really settled my heart. You’re not alone in this.

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Ameen, ameen. Honestly, standing up for your deen like this is beautiful. Don’t lose hope-sometimes people surprise you when you least expect it. Will make dua for the principal’s heart to soften.

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Allahumma ameen. I’ll pray they see it as just a student practicing her faith, nothing more. Sometimes a gentle explanation opens doors you never expected.

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Ameen.

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May Allah make it easy for you, ya ukhti. This is so brave.

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Ameen. It takes real guts, especially somewhere where covering up already stands out. May Allah reward every step.

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Allahumma ameen. You’ve got this sis.

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